EK brings up some interesting points to ponder.

Either consciously or subconsciously, I think many of us have believed several of these relationship misconceptions in the past. Hopefully in the past.

SIX INCREDIBLY STUPID LIES ABOUT SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS THAT I ACTUALLY BELIEVED AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER
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My last blog was pretty successful, for a personal blog that offered no redeeming qualities whatsoever. Was cited in a magazine as one of Denver’s ten best blogs, and at its heyday had 400-500 unique visitors a day.

But then things turned ugly. Stalker ugly. I was misquoted across the blogosphere. The smear campaign was so intense, you’d think I had been responsible for the Holocaust, when in fact all I had done was to stick up for gay people to some bigoted, but powerful bloggers.

I had my blog password-protected, but after such a horrible experience (which I took personally, because the attack was meant to be personal), my heart wasn’t in blogging any more. I’ve been away from blogging for over a year.

But here I am, new blog, new space, new name. I’m going to try this again. I had the scary stalker-thing happen to me, and I don’t want it to happen again. However, I love to write. I love to read what other people write.

I was once told by a boyfriend that I should shut up because “no one wants to hear what you think!” This from a man who thought people should worship his opinion like something from the Gospel.

I suppose I could continue to sit on my couch and keep my thoughts to myself.

This seems like more fun.